Detecting Harmful People Before They are Friends..God help us to be true healthy friends to each other..
1. The Promise Breaker-constantly disappoints you or break promises
2. The Taker-borrows and fails to return soemthing precious or valuable to you
3. The Double Crosser- betrays you big time
4. The Risk Taker-puts you in harms way because of illegal or dangerous behavior
5. The self absorbed-never has time to listen to you
6. the cheat- lies or steals your romantic partner
7. the discloser- betrays your confidence
8. the competitor-excessively combative with you and wants what you have-relationships, job, possesion)
9. the one upper- always one up on you
10. the rival-desires whatever you posses and may try to take it from you
11. fault finder-always critical
12. the downer-always negative, critical, and sad and makes you feel that way too
13. the rejecter-dislikes and let you know it
14. the abuser-verbally, physically, emotionally or sexually abuses you
15. the loner-would rather be alone than with a friend
16. the blood sucker-overly dependent
17. the therapist-need to analyze everything and give advice
18. the interloper-overly involved in your life
19. the copycat-imitates you
20. the controller-needs to dominate you and your friendship
21. the caretaker-needs to be friends keeper, parent or nursemaid, rather than equal.
Tim Burton’s Johnny Depps
AWWWWWW! I LUV!
That you can fall in love with someone regardless of how they look
To be true to your heart.
That love can happen between any two people.
That those we have lost will always be with us.
That even our wildest dreams can come true.
That we must learn to accept differences and love each other for them
That some of the most beautiful people we will ever know, are beautiful for who they are and not what they look like.
That we are all meant for something great.
That you may find the one you are meant for in the strangest places.
Even heroes have the right to bleed.
– Five for fighting (Superman)(Source: quote-book)
Via A Glimpse Into The Mind of Therry *Caution*
…and wear pink.
Being an adult means you no longer have any financial and decision making strings attached to your parents. You have carved your own career and life path, learned alot in the process, and no longer have to depend on anyone else to assist you. Its not a age, its a degree of responsibility.
36 Stress Reducers
1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up early so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No, to projects that won’t fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don’t lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you to do and let go of the
anxiety. If you can’t do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don’t use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut.) This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Carry a bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough exercise.
18. Eat right.
19. Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
21. Write thoughts and inspirations down.
22. Everyday, find time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don’t wait until its time to go to bed
to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good “Thank you, Lord!”
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (just realize that most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33. Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
36. Every night before bed, think of one thing you’re grateful for that you’ve never been grateful for before.
